Board warpage is avoidable ... if a PCB can enter and exit a reflow oven without warping, the same should hold true for rework. Pre-heating is extremely critical in the process.
Here’s the wrong scenario: If the PCB is not properly heated/saturated from the pre-heater, then as the top heat is activated, it is absorbed into the copper (thermal conductor) of the PCB as quickly as it’s supplied.
As a result, the top heater is not heating the solder of the socket, it’s heating the PCB. Therefore, the top heater is used more aggressively and the absorption rate of the PCB is compromised. That is what is likely causing board warpage.
Typically, in a lead free environment, top side heat does not begin until the board is approximately. 120°C. Then the recommended reflow profile from the solder paste vendor should be followed. The end process should look similar to the reflow oven profile.
Understanding the pre-heating phase could eliminate board warpage. If that doesn’t solve the problem, take a close look at the nozzle design and make sure the airflow and heat uniformity are okay.
Other than having a specially designed nozzle to direct hot air/N2 to the solder, socket rework is no more difficult than reworking a BGA.