My company Asymtek has a WIN3 program, that allows us to work with the customer and many adhesive suppliers, to provide a win situation for all three parties. unfortunately I cannot recommend any one adhesive or company. However there are many fine companies out there that supply adhesives.
I think what you should do is write a list of requirements. You have given us a couple adhesive that can withstand solder temperatures and easy to remove, not easy tasks. You may also have other requirements like solvent resistance and shock / vibration testing criteria.
When you have your list I would then go shopping. Beware of companies that say try my materials, they want you to do the testing. Look for companies that can show you the test results you are looking for. No one company is going to have everything you need, but the good ones do a lot of testing.
However because they will have done some of the work for you. Expect to pay more for their services because they are more than just an adhesive manufacture.