The lead-free finish on the boards sounds like a SAC type alloy. This is a metallurgical issue which has been discussed since the introduction of backwards and forward capability soldering with lead-free solders and leaded solders.
To get a good alloy formation of both solders, the minimum temperature has to be higher than the liquidus temperature of the highest melting alloy. In this case the soldering temperature should be in the vicinity of at least 250C for the reflow and 255 to 260 for the wave. At this point the fluxes in the leaded solder may cause some soldering issues as it is probably going to break down and not be effective in preparing and protecting the parts for the soldering operation.
Many people are working this issue but I would check with Werner Englemeir as he has conducted many reliability trials with these materials. His information is used quite extensively in the IPC documents for soldering and solder joint design.